前不久，蔡少芬在社交平台上狠狠撒了一波狗粮。
Do you agree that your parents have a second? Different students have different opinions about it. I am very happy to know that Datong School will start the summer camp. The middle school students from the Belt and Road countries will join it. I'd like to work for the summer camp. I want to be a cook, because I want to cook delicious food for students and make them know more about our food culture. I can make many kinds of foods, such as dumplings, noodles and so on. If I become a member of the summer camp, I will prepare delicious food carefully and keep the food clean and safe every day. I will try my best to let students have a wonderful time in our country. Today, as a greener means of transportation, bike-sharing is becoming more and more popular in many cities. It's known that it has many advantages. So it is enjoyed by lots of people. Some students agree with the idea. If so, they won't feel lonely and there will always be someone to play with. Besides, if their parents get older or ill, they can take turn to look after them. However, some students disagree. They worry that they will get less love from their parents if another comes to the family. What's worse, they may not get along well, or even fight against each other. First of all, it's very convenient for people to go somewhere. Also, it helps to reduce the traffic pressure. There will be less pollution because of bike-sharing. Besides, bike-sharing helps people take more exercise. In this way, it's helpful to people's health. As for me, I'd love to have a brother or sister as company, so that we can share our happiness and sorrow anytime. However, it also brings some problems. For example, some people throw them away after using bikes. Even some people destroy them, and some bikes are stolen by thieves. As long as we take good care of bikes, it will make our life better and better, and our environment will be more beautiful. I will try my best to let students have a wonderful time in our country. I am very happy to know that Datong School will start the summer camp. The middle school students from the Belt and Road countries will join it. As for me, I'd love to have a brother or sister as company, so that we can share our happiness and sorrow anytime. How to Improve Our Study Effectively? A great number of students can't finish their tasks, which leads to bad results and makes them less interested in their study. How can we solve the problem? Here are some suggestions. How to Spend Our Time Properly? You need to find an effective learning method. Take advantage of class time to listen to the teacher. Taking notes will help you remember what the teachers say. After class, you should review your lessons in time. You should also finish your homework carefully. If you have discovered any mistakes, correct them immediately. This will help you form a good learning habit. There is no endless time for us to spend. So how can we make good use of time to make our study and life better? Besides, you need to do some exercise. It can not only make you relaxed but also build up your body. First, we should make sure that the time is under control of ourselves. Second, more time should be used in study. As we all know, it takes time to study words or to do some exercises. So, to study well, you are supposed to spend much time on it. Third, we should spend proper time in developing our interests. Fourth, spending time with our family and friends is necessary. All in all, you should make good use of time on study and relaxation. If you have any problems in your study, you can ask your classmates or teachers for help. All in all, time is a good gift from the god. Only when we spend it properly, can we make our life meaningful and colorful. If you follow the advice that I have mentioned above, you will be successful. From 10:00 to 10:55, we plan to sing, dance, perform magic tricks and put on a short play at the farewell party. At 11:00, it's time for us to take photos together and give telephone numbers and addresses to each other. We can also write farewell words, give gifts and so on. After that, we will do some cleaning for our classroom. The party will be over at 11:30. I'm always working hard for a bright future. I imagine what my life in 20 years will be like. In 20 years, I will play an important role in my family. I will take care of my parents. Maybe I will be married and have a lovely child. In my free time, I will get together with my good friends to talk about the past school life. We can also do other things such as gardening and doing yoga. What's more, I will have a job and face new challenges. I think I will be a doctor and help patients. Last but not least, maybe I will have a robot. It can help me a lot in my daily life. Attention, please！Our class is going to have a farewell party in our classroom on the morning of June 26th, 2017. At 9:00, we will talk about what are you going to be when you grow up? After that, we will discuss how to spend our summer holidays. In a word, I hope my life in 20 years will be a better one! In my opinion, everyone should try to be civilized and follow these rules of using bikes. As long as we take good care of bikes, they will make our life better and better, and our environment will be more beautiful. Come to My Hometown Fujian for a Visit Hi, John, I'm glad to hear that you're planning to travel around China during the summer vacation. I'd like to invite you to my hometown Fujian for a visit. My Favorites Subject Glad to hear from you. I'd like to tell you something about the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival and how I spent it this year. Fujian lies in the southeast of China with Fuzhou as its capital city. It has a population of over 38 million. Because of the nice environment, it's known as Refreshing Fujian, which attracts millions of tourists from home and abroad. If you come here, you can enjoy fresh air, blue sky as well as beautiful mountains and clear rivers. Many famous places of interest like Mount Wuxi and Gulag Island are well worth visiting. Besides, you can taste various kinds of delicious food. In school we study many subjects, such as Chinese, English, geography and so on. But my favorite subject is English. How Do I Improve My English Today I am glad to introduce a teenager. His name is Cheng. Hello, everyone, now I want to give you an introduction about myself. My name is Gina Green. Gina is my first name and Green is my family name. I am a girl at the age of 12. I like chatting on the Internet, and my QQ number is. What's yours? I visited Hong Kong last summer holiday. It's a beautiful city and I had a wonderful time there. I'm Li Hue and I'm very happy to stand here to talk about myself. I have a good friend. Her name is May. She is 12 years old. Her telephone number is. Her birthday is March 5th. She is good at English and Cheese. She often plays the piano. She likes reading books and listening to the music. Her hobbies are reading and listening to music. She is a nice girl. We often help each other. We are good friends. There is always something unforgettable in my life, especially the story between my friend and me. My friend Daniel encourages me a lot in many ways. Now let me tell you something about him. Miss Wang is my English teacher. She looks very young. She's about thirty years old, and she wears glasses. She's funny. But she is strict with us. She wants us to study hard. Her lessons are interesting. We are very happy in her class and we all like her lessons. She is a good teacher, and we all like her. Hello, everyone! I'm Li Mei. Look! This is my family photo. This is my grandmother. She is 58. This is my father. He is a teacher. He is 36, and my mother is 36, too. Who's that boy? Oh, he is my brother. He is 13 and I am 12. My brother and I are students. Liang Ling, a 15-year-old girl, is a student in Class 1, Grade 9. How time flies! Three years has passed. I will graduate from junior high school. Look! This is Tom's room. His photos are on the wall. His T-shirt is on the bed. His baseball bat is behind the dresser. The keys are in the drawer. The computer is on the desk. Where is Tom's baseball? Oh, it's under the bed. What is on the floor? They are Tom's shoes, socks and computer games. What do you think of Tom's room? He is a helpful boy who often helps people around him. I still remember what happened between my best friend Lin Tao and me. I hope you can come to China next year and spend the festival with me. I will continue to study hard in my English studies and improve it to a higher stage. To improve our English, the school has given a list of books for us to read this summer. Of all the suggested books, I have decided to choose Secrets of English Words and Time for Kids. Knowing English makes my traveling much easier. I can make many foreign friends, too. This tells us that nothing seems terrible as long as we have a strong will and a brave heart. The first one is a book which may help me use English words better. By reading this book, I will surely learn more new words. This will make my future study much easier. Time for Kids is a popular magazine specially written for students, in which I will read interesting stories and have a taste of teen life abroad. So it must be of great fun to read it. Besides, reading can help me know more about the outside world and make me enrich my knowledge. That's why my dream shop is a bookstore. Being part of this activity, I am expecting a big step forward in my English. There will be a big reading room in it and people can sit in the chair to read their favorite books or magazines. Do remember no matter where we go, be sure not to throw litter everywhere. I am very glad to hear that you will come back to China and study in my school next term. Here are some suggestions for you. I'm sorry to know that you are having some problems now. I'd like to give you some suggestions. In order to have more chances to practice and improve English, we are involved in many kinds of group work and pair work activities in English classes. I hope my suggestions will be helpful for you. A great number of students can't finish their tasks, which leads to bad results and makes them less interested in their study. How can we solve the problem? Here are some suggestions. So I would like to suggest that everyone should borrow more books and read good books. Only when we spend it properly, can we make our life meaningful and colorful. There is no endless time for us to spend. So how can we make good use of time to make our study and life better? On that day, we eat; go to watch lantern shows and dragon dances to pray for health and happiness for the whole year. The Dragon Boat Festival falls on May 5th this year. People all across China eat Zongzi and dragon boat races are held in many places to remember a great ancient person Queue. I think English is very interesting. It's used widely in the world. Wherever you go, you can use it. I can not only learn many new words and phrases but also get the latest news about western countries. Besides, English is a global language. Knowing English makes my travel much easier. I can make many foreign friends, too. What Should I Do For the Strive? As we know, Anshan city is becoming more and more beautiful. Actually, Anshan is bidding for the title of, which is a must for our city to become green and famous in China. As a middle school student, I am terribly happy for that, because I will do what I can do to help. What should we do then? Firstly, we cannot litter anywhere and we should keep the streets clean. Secondly, we should follow traffic rules at all times to keep safe. Thirdly, we should treat each other politely and behave in a civilized way. More importantly, we must plant more trees, flowers and plants to make the city become greener. In the future, I will take notes carefully and focus on correct spelling and grammar. After class, it is a good idea for me to read more articles from English newspapers or magazines. When I have some problems with my English speaking, I will turn to my teachers and friends for help. I will continue to study hard in my English studies and improve it to a higher stage. I hope you can come to China next year and spend the festival with me. To sum up, it is our duty to contribute to and to struggle for the honor of, isn't it? As for it, different students have different thoughts. Some students stand by it, others are against it. As far as I'm concerned, I think study trip is good for students, and here are my reasons. I'm looking forward to meeting you! We had three days off for this festival this year. During that time, I went for a picnic in the countryside with my good friends, and of course, ate Zongzi with my family. I also watched the dragon boat races on TV. I enjoyed the holiday very much. In a word, I'm sure you will enjoy yourself here. He is very popular in our school because he is polite to everyone. Of all kinds of movies, I like comedies best. I think they're interesting. My favorite actor is Jackie. I like his movie King of Comedy. I think it's a successful comedy. For action movies, I like The Lord of the Ring best. It's exciting. I like documentaries because they're true stories. I like only some thrillers. Many thrillers are scary and boring. My favorite memory of my dad is that he always wants to keep me from making mistakes but he tries to let me find my own way, even though his heart breaks in silence when I get hurt. As for my dream, I want to be a teacher; I'll make friends with my kids. I have a good weekend. On Saturday morning, I do my homework. After lunch, I go shopping with my mother. At about five o'clock, I go to play basketball with my friend. On Sunday, I watch a football game on TV. I often help my mother do housework. I watch TV with my parents in the evening. Then I go to bed at nine o'clock. I'm very happy The next morning, I found a piece of paper. It said, never give up, dear. I am proud of you! Like many other boys, I enjoy doing sports, but math's and science are my favorite. My favorite subject is English. I like it because it is interesting. I have English every day. I can speak a little English. I join the school English club. Every afternoon I go there to talk in English. I can see English movies and read English books. I think it is useful for me. I want to learn it well. I like English very much. I would be very thankful if you could give me the chance. As a student, I think I should always try my best to work for our school. Though she is busy, she studies hard and gets good grades. This is my best dad. I love him and I'm so proud of him. Although I am not the best now, I will make every effort to become a top student and I believe you will be proud of me. I imagine that she is not only young but also beautiful. Hello, everyone! I don't like sports, but I like eating very much. I eat a lot food every day. For breakfast, I like milk, eggs and bread a lot. For lunch, I like French fries, chicken, hamburgers and apples. For dinner, I like fruits, vegetables and rice. Although I wasn't willing to do it, I still lent it to him because he was my best friend. I am sure that I can be a good volunteer at the International Dragon Competition. After reading so many books, I get a lot of knowledge and also feel relaxed. I get up early at six every day. After doing some morning exercises, I read English for twenty minutes. At seven I have breakfast. After breakfast I take my schoolbag and go to school. Our class begins at eight, and we have four classes in the morning. After lunch at 12 o'clock, I take a short rest in the classroom. We have three more classes in the afternoon. After school at five, I go back home. I often help my mother do some housework. Sometimes I watch TV. After dinner, I begin to do my homework. Then I take a shower. I go to bed at nine thirty. We are going to have some meaningful activities. To express thanks to our teachers, we each should say thankful words to our dear teachers. It's a chance for you to learn more about Chinese traditional culture. Come and join us! I think we'll have a great time. Before you arrive, we will prepare a clean and bright room for you. It's really hard for me to say goodbye. I wish my school to have a better future. To begin with, we need to be clear about the location of the facilities. I hope all of our younger schoolmates can live and study happily in our school. First of all, I will volunteer to do some cleaning with my classmates, such as cleaning the windows and sweeping the floor. To keep our school clean, we will ask our schoolmates not to litter at school. I am Very Grateful to My Mom Now, I'll graduate from middle school. I am very grateful to my mom because she has done much for me. I think words can't show my thanks to her. My Classmate Liang Ling Liang Ling, a 15-year-old girl, is a student in Class 1, Grade 9. She comes from a poor family. Since she was a little girl, she has cared for her family. My New Head teacher How lucky I am to be his daughter! How time flies! Three years has passed. I will graduate from junior high school. I will enter a new school to study. What will my new head teacher be like? My mom is an excellent teacher and we are in the same school. She works hard and often goes back home very late. I remembered that once I was very worried about a quite hard problem from my homework. She helped me in time though she was too tired at night, and I was so thankful at that time. So my eyes were filled with tears. I imagine that she/he is not only young but also beautiful/handsome. She/he may be both patient with us and kind to us. She/he is also strict with us. I hope she/he is outgoing. He can understand us and make friends with us. If she/he likes doing sports, we can play together after class. She can get more knowledge from her/him. She is great. Let's wish her a better future. I would never forget it. From my mom, I got not only help but also the deep love. Thank you, my dear mom. Every day Liang Ling helps with the cooking, cleaning and washing. I asked her whether she was tired of doing so much housework. “Not really.” She smiled. “I've got used to it.” Though she is busy, she studies hard and gets good grades. What's more, she is always ready to help others. Everyone likes her because of her kindness. In our eyes, she always faces difficulties bravely. No matter how hard the life is, she never gives up. I am looking forward to seeing her/him! I'm glad to hear that you're planning to travel around China during the summer vacation. I'd like to invite you to my hometown Fujian for a visit. Nowadays, reading is becoming more and more popular among us. You asked me about festivals in China. Let me introduce some important ones to you. Of all the suggested books, I have decided to choose Secrets of English Words and Time for Kids. I'd like to tell you something about the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival and how I spent it this year. The book I'd like to share with you is The Old Man and the Sea, written by an American writer Ernest Hemingway. If possible, you may watch Han Show. Hope you'll have fun here. Then, we'll invite you to our class and talk about school life. In a word, it's helpful for our society to do some charity. Many hands make light work. Take actions now to make our society more beautiful! Once, our community held an old thing fair to raise money for the homeless people. Whether We Can Use Mobile Phones How Can a Teenager Have a Successful Life? Grades are not everything our class has had a discussion about whether we can use mobile phones. I have recently done a survey about how a teenager can have a successful life. I don't think grades are important. Students have different abilities and some of them can't be measured by grades, such as creativity, abilities to communicate and act. Some students think it is good to use mobile phones because they can take photos with them in our daily life. They can also listen to music to relax themselves in free time. Besides, using mobile phones makes it easy to keep in touch with their parents and friends. Most students believe it's necessary to study hard. After all, study plays a key role in their life. They also agree they should respect their parents, who look after them every day. Besides, they're ready to serve the society and in their opinion it's really meaningful. What's more, they think each teenager is supposed to make a good plan for future. To start with, I wasn't good at English and seldom got high scores on the exams. But one day, my teacher encouraged me to perform in an English play because of my good pronunciation and lively expressions. To perform well, I studied my lines many times and even dressed up like the character. While we were performing, I could hear my classmates cheering. How excited! Later, my teacher praised me for my wonderful acting and this made me more confident and interested in English. But some others don't think so. They think students shouldn't use mobile phones. Using mobile phones too much is bad for their eyes and it's a waste of time to chat with friends. Sometimes some students use mobile phones to play games. It will have a bad effect on study. In my opinion, I think we'd better not use mobile phones. We should spend more time on our study instead of using mobile phones. All in all, grades can be a way to measure students' achievements in schoolwork. However, different interests and abilities can make a student's a full man. From my opinion of view, we need to make some good friends so that we can learn from each other. Also, we must be active and exercise more to keep healthy because it's important to a successful life. There is an activity about Chinese traditional operas at 2:00 p.m. on July 1. It will be held on the playground in our school and all the teachers and students will attend.
“只要有你，就算是阴天，我也会笑”
“我永远是你的乖乖，我爱你鱼鱼”
单看这个行为和措辞，很多人觉得蔡少芬是个妥妥的恋爱脑。
甜蜜的氛围让全网网民直呼嗑到了，但随之而来的，是一段“打脸视频”被扒出。
蔡少芬在综艺节目里，曾说过，自己结婚为人母后，特别怕死。
这种担忧，会让蔡少芬在每次出行，特别是坐飞机前，她总会脑补自己半路遭遇不测。
所以每一次上飞机前，她都会郑重其事地跟丈夫张晋交代身后事。
并再三嘱咐他：
“如果我有事的话，你必须好好保护孩子，想要再结婚没有问题，要找一个对他们好的女人。”
一旁的钟丽缇听完，马上安慰蔡少芬：
“不可能的，他这么爱你！”
钟丽缇是出了名的少女心，对生活永远保持着一腔热血，一举一动都带着浪漫色彩。
然而接下来蔡少芬的一句话，把所有的浪漫击碎，只剩下一地扎人又刺眼的破碎。
她说：
“算了吧，现实一点。”
什么忠贞不渝的爱情，什么千年修来的夫妻情深。
在现实面前，不仅不值一提，还经不起考验。
有人说，蔡少芬能说出这番话，还不是因为不够爱，什么模范夫妻，翻车了吧！
我觉得，这样的说法，未免天真了点。
别说是天人之隔了，哪怕是爱人尚在世间，也不能保证两人能携手到生命的最后一刻。
年纪轻轻丧偶，几乎没有几个人能靠着那点爱情撑完下半生的。
再深爱的人离去了，活着的人依然还要过这往后余生。
所以不可否认，再婚，确实是一件非常现实且正常的事。
与其抱着不切实际的幻想，倒不如早一点认清这样的事实。
哪怕将来真的遭遇不测，死去的人，能放下忧心去长眠，活着的人，也不需要背负着道德和情感的枷锁，煎熬地过完下半生。
所以觉得，蔡少芬是真的人间清醒。
她有敢于承认事实的勇气，也有勇于打破幻想的能力。
她之所以会如此现实，是因为她深深明白，对生活抱有幻想，就是在伤害自己。
蔡少芬的原生家庭，并不美满
她成长在单亲家庭里。
相依为命的妈妈十分好赌。
短短几年，蔡少芬的妈妈便把家底赔光，还欠了一屁股赌债。
据说连蔡少芬的外婆在医院去世时，妈妈也依然沉迷在赌场，不管不顾。
童年的蔡少芬，便是在这种日日被追债的日子中长大的。
在这种混乱糟心的日子里，蔡少芬磕磕碰碰地长大，容颜越来越出众。
一个颜值高的年轻女孩，想要短时间内赚大钱，真的太容易了。
17岁那年，蔡少芬拿下了香港小姐季军。
肤白貌美的她因此得以进入娱乐圈，开始演戏生涯。
但美貌带来的，不仅仅只有财富，还有绯闻。
蔡少芬被富商刘銮雄看中，他为了哄蔡少芬开心，不仅帮她母亲还了债，还送了她好几套房子。
这么大的水鱼，哪怕蔡少芬不想要，她的妈妈也要抓住。
为了填补母亲的赌债，蔡少芬付出了自己最好的六年。
为了能从女儿身上拿到更多钱，妈妈还主动去找记者爆料，说蔡少芬是自愿的。
母亲的一句话，让她的颜面扫地。
不仅如此，母亲的赌瘾依旧没有收敛，赌债刚填补完，又来一笔。
这时她才清醒，原来自己努力至今，都不过是妈妈的提款机罢了。
这么多年，蔡少芬到手的钱一律上缴，不仅是为了填补母亲的赌债，也是为了能引起母亲的注意，希望能得到从小就缺乏的爱。
母亲的无情给了蔡少芬当头一棒。
什么母女亲情，舐犊情深，都是利益和贪心的遮羞布。
这种牺牲自己，满足母亲的“孝顺”生活，她不想再过了。
为了自己的未来，她必须要丢掉对母亲不切实际的幻想，做一个狠心的女人。
27岁那年，蔡少芬举办记者招待会，宣布要和豪赌的母亲断绝母女关系。
这段经历，每每回想，都痛心不已。
被至亲的人背叛、插刀，这种伤害，让从小受尽冷眼的蔡少芬更加明白，对别人抱有期待，才是对自己的残忍。
把自己的幸福和下半生都寄托在别人身上，那就一辈子受制于人，没有尊严，没有自由。
想要自由，唯有自立
想要幸福，唯有现实
逃离了嗜血的母亲，远离了让她前半生蒙受委屈的富商，她的自立之路正式开始。
这条路，走得很艰难。
在TVB拍戏时，她经常要从早上6点拍到凌晨3点。
哪怕剧组有安排特定的化妆师，为了省下等待的时间，她自己做妆发，急匆匆打扮一番就能直接出镜。
一天的工作时间长达21小时，睡觉时间更是屈指可数。
导演的要求高，剧组条件差，拍戏的难度大，对TVB的艺人来说，都是常事。
娱乐圈里的美女演员太多了，不努力往下扎根，很快，就会被现实打回原形。
所以哪怕现状再苦，蔡少芬也从不言弃。
这些艰苦的往事，都成了蔡少芬的沉淀。
正是这些高强度的工作，磨炼出精湛的演技，才有了《甄嬛传》里经典的皇后娘娘一角。
过往的蔡少芬，成就了现在的蔡少芬。
后来，她遇见了现在的丈夫，张晋。
那时候的张晋，不过是一个默默无名的替身演员。
而蔡少芬，早就是家喻户晓的大明星。
门不当户不对。
所以当张晋鼓起勇气来跟蔡少芬告白时，她着实吓了一跳。
回想过往，被至亲的人背叛中伤，想要重新投入一段亲密关系，对伤痕累累的蔡少芬而言，真的很难。
面对张晋，她始终还是带着警惕的。
但是，张晋不一样。
他仿佛就是上天赐予蔡少芬的礼物。
表白被拒，他不死心，三番四次，终于用真心打动了蔡少芬。
但更大的考验还在后头。
身份的不匹配，也让两个人遭受了不少闲言闲语。
外界的议论更是处处中伤，说张晋吃软饭，靠蔡少芬上位，心机满满。
但此时的蔡少芬，已经不是当年那个单纯的小女孩了。
经历了大风大浪，她的眼光也变得毒辣。
很多人说蔡少芬嫁给张晋，太傻。
但我觉得，选择了张晋，正是蔡少芬的聪明之处。
毕竟，年纪轻轻就已经站在顶端的蔡少芬，什么东西没见过？
正是因为不在乎这些功名利禄，她才会看到张晋最闪光的品质。
“对朋友忠诚”
“对工作认真”
“对我就更不用说了”
……
这些品质，也给她带来了后半生的甜蜜与幸福。
跑龙套的张晋虽然没名没气，但是也和蔡少芬一样，是一个愿意在自己的专业上不断下苦功夫的人。
从默默无名到影帝，40岁才成名，大器终于晚成。
他也是一个特别顾家的男人，为了不让老婆辛苦，大半夜起床给孩子喂奶，无怨无悔。
事实证明，蔡少芬确实没有选错人。
这也是以往的努力奋斗带给她的底气，她有名有望，有钱有颜，根本不在乎对方的口袋里有几两碎银。
年轻的时候她没得选，只能嗅着铜臭味，与不爱的人相伴。
但现在的她，自己为自己挣来了选择的自由。
这也是蔡少芬的清醒和现实之处：提高对自己的要求，放下对他人的期待。
不管对方身份如何，所谓幸福，是在日常的琐碎中被一一感知的。
这也是她用大半生告诉我们的现实：
最大的现实，就是做人做事，都先要为了自己，依靠自己。
不幸的原生家庭，只能自己摆脱。
独立自立的生活，只能自己争取。
顺心顺意的下半生，只能自己选择。
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